It is the desire of _________ and _________ to extend their commitments to each other by making some promises to the children of this family. As you all join hands to form a new circle of love, we will seal this union with spoken promises like the rings this bride and groom have exchanged.
Officient to the Bride/Groom:
Do you _________ and _________, promise to be faithful, loving, tender and nurturing parents, always there for _________ (child/children’s name), not only providing their/her/his physical needs, but their/her/his emotional needs as well, always a good listener, a loving counselor and a friend?
Bride & Groom:
Officient to the mother/Father (Speaking to the Child/Children):
(Repeat after me). _________, I want you to know that I love your mother/father very much. I will not and cannot replace a mother/father loved by you, however I can promise you that I will love you and care for you as if you were my own. I promise to be a committed listener. I promise you my trust, to be fair, my support, what knowledge I can share, to be your friend, and to provide a shoulder to cry on. I promise to be available to you as I am to your mother/father.
Bride/Groom to Child/Children:
_________, I give you this _________ (gift) as a sign of my loving promises made this day.
Officient to Child/Children:
Do you accept the promises made by _________?
I do or We do.